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Do you (WOMEN) ever get the feeling that a friend doesn’t like you anymore? How do you deal with these feelings?
I am someone that has done this a lot. It isn’t that I do not like them anymore but more so that we have both changed so much since the start of those friendships. In high school and college, those friends were friends mostly due to proximity.
Once we weren’t forced to be near each other on a daily basis anymore, I found we had nothing to really talk about. It used to be what was happening around school or with mutual friends but once I was taken out of that, I found I had nothing in common with them.
And it takes time to really get to know someone, we might click at first but then you start to really learn their values and goals, etc and maybe it isn’t aligned quite the same as yours. Even if it is aligned now, there is a chance it will change in 5 years because we are always growing!
Lately, I have noticed that the older I get the shorter my energy meter gets… I’m practically in bed by 8 pm. With any free time, I only want to spend that energy with family and people I click with the most. For these reasons, I don’t really go out of my way to reach out to most friends anymore because it is difficult to maintain so many friendships